Episode 1 | A Shameless Introduction | Ironing Out The Kinks Podcast
🔥 Dom/Sub Relationships, Foot Fetishes & The Most Hilariously Awkward Blowjob Ever 🔥
Welcome to Episode 1 of Ironing Out the Kinks! In our official first episode (the last one was garbage, don’t ask), we introduce ourselves, talk about dom/sub dynamics in relationships, foot fetishes, and a disastrously funny blowjob mishap. Plus, we answer listener dilemmas about partners who aren’t into kinks and whether watching porn counts as cheating. Let’s go! 😏
👑 Dom/Sub Relationships – Power, Control & Why Some People Crave It
This week’s featured kink: Dominance & Submission – the ultimate power exchange in sex and relationships.
🔹 What is it? A sexual or lifestyle dynamic where one partner takes control (dominant) and the other surrenders (submissive). 🔹 Why do people love it?
Dominants enjoy control, authority, and leading the experience.
Submissives crave surrender, structure, and being taken care of.
It adds intensity, anticipation, and emotional depth to sex. 🔹 Types of Dom/Sub play:
Sensory deprivation (blindfolds, restraints, noise cancellation)
Impact play (spanking, flogging, paddles)
Humiliation & degradation (for those who love it)
Total power exchange (24/7 D/s relationships)
💡 Pro tip: If you’re curious about D/s play, start with simple power shifts. Tell your partner they have full control for the night and see where it leads. 🔥
Are you more dominant or submissive in the bedroom? DM us your thoughts!
🦶 Foot Fetishes – Why Some People Worship Feet
One of the most common kinks out there, foot fetishes come in many forms.
🔹 What is it? A strong attraction to feet, ranging from aesthetic appreciation to full-on foot worship. 🔹 Common elements:
Massaging, licking, sucking toes
Dressing feet in specific ways (heels, socks, bare)
Foot jobs (yes, it’s a thing)
Being stepped on (some people like pain with their pleasure!) 🔹 Why do people love it?
Feet are highly sensitive and can be erogenous zones.
It taps into dominance and submission (being at someone’s feet).
Some just love the sight, shape, and feel of them.
💡 Pro tip: If your partner has a foot fetish, start slow—let them give you a foot massage and see how it feels.
Do you have a thing for feet, or do they do nothing for you? Let us know!
🙄 Listener Dilemma: “My Partner Isn’t Into Kinks—How Do I Bring It Up?”
A listener wrote in:
📢 “I’m a submissive male, and my girlfriend of nine years is very vanilla. I love kinks and power play, but she’s not into it at all. How do I get her to try?”
✔️ Start small. Introduce light roleplay, teasing, or dominance in subtle ways. ✔️ Find out what she’s into. She might have fantasies she’s never voiced. ✔️ Show, don’t tell. Watching a movie with kink elements can be a conversation starter. ✔️ Respect her limits. If she’s not into it, that’s okay! But compromise is key.
💡 Pro tip: Ask her to take control in bed just once. Giving her the power might unlock something new for both of you.
Have you had to introduce kinks to a partner? Tell us how it went!
🙃 The Most Awkward Blowjob Ever
We asked for your most humiliating sex mishaps, and this one is GOLD:
📢 “I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob, and he asked me to go deeper. I thought, why not? Turns out, semen burns like hell when it shoots out of your nose.”
👃 Yes, she accidentally snorted his orgasm. 💦 It burned, her eyes watered, and she had to finish the job while looking like a mess. 🚨 Lesson learned: Gravity is a thing. Plan accordingly. 😳
If you think you have a worse sex fail… we NEED to hear it.
📢 Follow Us & Submit Your Stories!
That’s a wrap on Episode 1! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! 💌
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Until next time… stay kinky! 😈🔥