Episode 2 | Wrestling With Kinks and Lost Items | Ironing Out The Kinks Podcast
🔥 Sensory Deprivation, Impact Play & The Most Awkward Office Sex Toy Fail Ever 🔥
We’re back with Episode 2, and this time, we’re diving into sensory deprivation (taking away control for ultimate pleasure), impact play (why some people love a good spanking), and an absolutely embarrassing office sex toy story. Plus, we answer listener dilemmas about partners with mismatched kinks and the struggles of introducing new fantasies. Let’s get into it! 😏
🔇 Sensory Deprivation – Taking Away Control for Maximum Pleasure
This week’s featured kink: Sensory Deprivation – the art of removing sight, sound, or touch to intensify sexual experiences.
🔹 What is it? Blocking out senses (blindfolds, noise-canceling headphones, restraints) to heighten anticipation and sensitivity. 🔹 Why do people love it? Losing control makes every touch more intense, and the surprise factor increases arousal. 🔹 Common techniques:
Blindfolds for heightened touch sensitivity.
Earplugs or noise-canceling headphones to create total focus.
Full-body restraints for complete surrender. 🔹 It’s perfect for power play. Dominants take total control, while submissives get lost in the sensations.
💡 Pro tip: If you’re nervous, start simple—blindfold your partner and tease them with different sensations. A feather? Ice? Your tongue? They won’t know what’s coming. 🔥
Would you try full sensory deprivation, or do you need to know what’s happening at all times? Let us know!
🩸 Impact Play – Why Some People Love a Good Spanking
One of the most common kinks out there, impact play is all about controlled force.
🔹 What is it? Using hands, paddles, crops, or floggers to deliver pleasurable pain. 🔹 Why do people love it? It’s a mix of dominance, submission, and physical sensation. 🔹 Levels range from:
Playful spanking (a cheeky slap here and there)
Discipline-style paddling (punishment play)
Full-on flogging and impact tools (for the hardcore) 🔹 Aftercare is important. Even if it’s fun, intense sessions need cuddles, reassurance, and maybe a cheek rub. 😉
💡 Pro tip: Always communicate. Set limits, use a safe word, and build up intensity gradually. Nobody wants a surprise wallop out of nowhere!
Are you into impact play, or is it too painful to be pleasurable? DM us your thoughts!
🙄 Listener Dilemma: “My Partner Isn’t Into Kinks—How Do I Introduce It?”
A listener wrote in:
📢 “I’m a submissive male, and my girlfriend of nine years is very vanilla. I love kinks and power play, but she’s not into it at all. How do I get her to try?”
✔️ Start small. Instead of jumping straight to restraints and dom-sub dynamics, ease in with light roleplay or teasing. ✔️ Ask about HER desires. She may have fantasies she’s never shared. ✔️ Introduce ideas through fun, non-threatening ways. Try watching a sexy movie together and discussing what you both liked. ✔️ Respect her boundaries. If she’s open to exploring—amazing! If not, find compromises that work for both of you.
💡 Pro tip: If she’s hesitant, start with something playful—like making her give all the orders in bed for one night. Confidence can build over time!
Have you ever had to introduce kinks to a partner? How did it go?
🤣 The Most Embarrassing Office Sex Toy Fail Ever
We asked for your most humiliating sex mishaps, and this one is pure GOLD:
📢 “I was working late in my office when my partner asked for a sexy pic. I grabbed a pink highlighter from my boss’s desk and… well, you know. Afterward, I put it back, totally forgot, and went back to work.”
📑 Cue the horror: 💼 The next morning, the boss picked up the highlighter, used it, and PUT IT IN HER MOUTH. 😳 Listener watched in shock, unable to say a word. 🤢 Moral of the story: Maybe keep work supplies and sex toys separate.
If you have a worse sex fail… we NEED to hear it.
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That’s a wrap on Episode 2! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! 💌
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Until next time… stay kinky! 😈🔥