Episode 4 | Upset In-Laws and Dogging PNC | Ironing Out The Kinks Podcast
š„ Exhibitionism, Water Sports & the Most Awkward Bedroom Fails Ever š„
Weāre back with Episode 4, and this time, weāre diving into exhibitionism (getting turned on by being watched), water sports (yes, we mean peeing), and some truly embarrassing sex mishapsāincluding a lad who confused āspit on meā with āspit on my chest.ā Plus, we tackle listener dilemmas about affairs turning into real relationships and how to keep the spark alive. Letās get into it! š
š Exhibitionism ā Why Some People Love Being Watched
This weekās featured kink: Exhibitionism ā the thrill of being seen during sexual activity.
š¹ What is it? Getting turned on by the idea (or reality) of having sex while others watch. š¹ Common examples:
Masturbating in front of a partner.
Having sex in semi-public places (clubs, balconies, sex parties).
Performing for an audience (like at a BDSM event). š¹ Why do people love it? It heightens arousal, adds a risk factor, and can be a huge confidence booster.
š” Pro tip: If youāre curious but nervous, start with something simpleālike filming yourself with your partner or masturbating while they watch.
Would you ever have sex in front of an audience, or is that a hard no? Let us know!
š¦ Water Sports ā The Ultimate Control Kink?
Also known as golden showers, piss play, or the kink that makes people squirm.
š¹ What is it? Peeing on (or being peed on) for sexual pleasure. š¹ Why do people love it?
Itās an extreme form of dominance/submission.
It plays into humiliation kinks.
Some just enjoy the warm, wet sensation. š¹ Variations include:
Wetting clothes on purpose (or making a partner do it).
Being āmarkedā by a dom.
Drinking it (yes, itās a thing, donāt ask).
š” Pro tip: If youāre into this, do it in the shower firstāway less mess, way more fun.
Would you ever try water sports, or is it an absolute no-go? DM us your thoughts!
š Listener Dilemma: āI Had an Affair & Now Weāre TogetherāHow Do We Keep It Kinky?ā
A listener wrote in:
š¢ āI had an affair with a married man, and we both left our partners to be together. The sex was insanely hot when it was secret, but now that we donāt have to sneak around, Iām scared weāll lose the spark. How do I keep things exciting?ā
āļø First, acknowledge the reality: The thrill of doing something āwrongā is goneābut that doesnāt mean the passion has to die. āļø Recreate the tension. Try roleplaying as forbidden lovers or setting up sneaky hotel meet-ups. āļø Introduce new kinks. What have you NOT tried yet? Sensory deprivation, restraints, public play? āļø Keep teasing outside the bedroom. Dirty texts, worn underwear surprises, or setting ātasksā for each other during the day can build anticipation.
Keeping things spicy takes effort, but if you both want it, you can absolutely make it work. Keep us updated!
š¤£ The Most Hilarious Sex Fails Yet
We asked for your most embarrassing sex moments, and here are the winners:
š The Spit Confusion ā A woman told her partner to spit on her for lube. He misheard and spat directly on her chest. Mood = ruined.
š± The Cat Who Wanted In ā A listenerās cat jumped on his back mid-sex, wrapping around his shoulders like a scarf. Pure chaos ensued.
š«§ Chewing Gum Disaster ā A guy was going down on a girl while chewing gum. Guess where it ended up? In her pubes. She had to cut it out. First time going down on a girlāabsolutely ruined.
If you have a worse story, we NEED to hear it.
š¢ Follow Us & Submit Your Stories!
Thatās a wrap on Episode 4! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! š
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Until next timeā¦ stay kinky! šš„