Episode 15 | The Vanishing Butt Plug and A Very Confused Grandma | Ironing Out The Kinks Podcast
🔥 Crossdressing, Dirty Talk & A Grandmother Walk-In Horror Story 🔥
We’re back with Episode 15, and this time, we’re breaking down crossdressing (why more straight men do it than you think), dirty talk (why most people suck at it), and a listener confession that involves getting caught mid-sex… twice… by their grandma. Plus, we tackle a dilemma about a fiancé with a porn addiction that’s killing his relationship. Let’s go! 😏
💄 Crossdressing – Why More Straight Men Love It Than You Think
This week’s featured kink: Crossdressing – the art of men dressing in feminine clothing, either for sexual pleasure or personal enjoyment.
🔹 What is it? Wearing clothes traditionally associated with the opposite gender. 🔹 Who does it? Surprisingly, most men who crossdress identify as heterosexual and are in long-term relationships. 🔹 Why do people love it?
It allows them to step out of their usual role and experience femininity.
It can be a switch from being dominant to submissive.
Some simply love the feel of women’s clothing. 🔹 Not all crossdressing is sexual. Many men enjoy it as a way to express themselves outside of their usual masculine role.
💡 Pro tip: If your partner is into crossdressing, try introducing it into roleplay. Would you rather dominate them while they’re dressed up, or let them take the lead? 😏
Would you ever experiment with crossdressing, or is it not your thing? DM us your thoughts!
🗣️ Dirty Talk – Why Most People Suck At It
🔹 What is it? Using erotic language to build arousal, either through text, whispering, or full-on filthy monologues. 🔹 Why do people love it?
It builds anticipation throughout the day.
It makes sex mentally as well as physically stimulating.
It gives partners clear cues about what turns them on. 🔹 Why do some people struggle?
They overthink it and freeze up.
They try to make it sound like a porno and it ends up awkward.
They don’t know what their partner actually wants to hear.
💡 Pro tip: If you’re bad at dirty talk, start small—describe a past experience you loved or ask them what they want. “Tell me what you’re thinking about right now…” is a great way to get them talking. 🔥
Are you a pro at dirty talk, or does it make you cringe? Tell us your best (or worst) lines!
🙄 Listener Dilemma: “My Fiancé’s Porn Addiction Is Ruining Our Relationship”
A listener wrote in:
📢 “My fiancé told me he has had a porn addiction since he was 13. He barely touches me, but he watches porn constantly and tells me to leave him alone so he can do it. I set a boundary that it makes me uncomfortable, but he says I’m being unreasonable. What do I do?”
🚩 This is a massive red flag. A healthy relationship involves intimacy between BOTH partners, and addiction (whether it’s porn, alcohol, or gambling) can destroy that.
✔️ Have a serious talk. This isn’t just about porn—it’s about your emotional and physical needs not being met. ✔️ If he refuses to acknowledge the problem, you have a bigger issue. ✔️ He needs to be willing to get help. If he’s shutting you out and refusing to work on it, that’s a dealbreaker. ✔️ You deserve to feel wanted in your relationship. If he won’t change, ask yourself if this is what you want for life.
Would you stay and work on it, or is this a lost cause? DM us your thoughts.
🤣 Grandma Walked In… Twice
We asked for your worst ‘caught in the act’ stories, and this one wins:
📢 “My girlfriend and I were going at it when my grandmother walked in. She looked AMAZED, then walked out and said, ‘I didn’t know you had a visitor.’”
🚪 So, they locked the door and got back into it… 🚶 Grandma walked in AGAIN because the lock was faulty. 😳 Mood = completely ruined. 😅 The only saving grace? She had late-stage Alzheimer’s and didn’t remember a thing.
Have you ever been caught mid-sex? Tell us your worst stories!
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That’s a wrap on Episode 15! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! 💌
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Until next time… stay kinky! 😈🔥