Episode 14 | The Feel of Leather and The Surprising Salad Dressing | Ironing Out The Kinks Podcast
🔥 Leather, Latex & the Dirty World of Used Underwear 🔥
Another week, another episode of Ironing Out the Kinks! This time, we’re diving deep into leather, latex, and the fetish for used underwear (spoiler: Luke is VERY into it). Plus, we answer a listener’s dilemma about a relationship struggling after long-distance separation, and we hear some wildest sex fails, including a guy who took shower sex to the ER. Let’s get into it. 😏
🖤 Leather & Latex – Why Do People Love It?
This week’s kink: the obsession with leather and latex.
🔹 Leather = Power. It’s strong, it molds to the body, and it gives off serious dom energy. 🔹 Latex = Liquid Shine. It’s the mirror-finish fantasy, hugging every curve and giving that oiled-up look. 🔹 The scent, the feel, the way it moves… it’s all part of the turn-on. 🔹 A dominatrix in leather? Instant authority. A submissive in latex? Ultimate objectification.
While neither of us have played much with leather or latex, we can see the appeal. Would we ever try it? Never say never. 😏
🩲 Used Underwear – The Smelliest, Sexiest Kink?
This is Luke’s favorite. He loves the scent, the filth, the fact that it’s a personal, intimate part of Chelsea. And he’s not alone—there’s a huge market for buying and selling used underwear online.
💦 Why do people love it?
The pheromones are biologically designed to turn us on.
It’s a way to feel closer to a partner, especially in long-distance relationships.
It’s dirty, naughty, and forbidden.
Some men collect them. (Yes, people still nick panties at house parties.)
💡 Sexy Idea: Next time your partner goes away, slip a pair of your worn underwear into their bag and tell them to sniff it when they miss you. Foreplay starts way before the bedroom. 😉
Would you ever buy (or sell) used underwear? Drop your confessions.
😳 Relationship Trouble After Long-Distance?
A listener wrote in:
📢 “I was away for three months, and now my partner barely kisses me. She says it ‘feels like cheating’ because she got used to me not being here.”
🚨 What’s happening?
Some partners adjust to life without you and struggle to readapt.
Sometimes, emotional distance can develop while apart.
In some cases (not always!), a partner may have emotionally checked out.
Our Advice: ✅ Have a brutally honest talk. Is she feeling disconnected, or is there something else going on? ✅ Try a “hard reset.” Plan a romantic, intimate day to reignite that spark. ✅ Give her time to re-acclimate. Some people take longer to adjust after time apart.
If all else fails? You deserve someone who WANTS to kiss you after three months apart. 💯
💦 A Bisexual Woman Looking for the Perfect Threesome Man
A listener asked:
📢 “I only like women in a threesome/throuple setting. But every guy I date either hates the idea or becomes obsessed with finding us another girl. Where’s the happy medium?”
Our Advice: ✔️ Don’t tell men too soon. Let them get to know you first—otherwise, they’ll hyper-fixate on it. ✔️ Set boundaries IMMEDIATELY. If a guy starts acting like a kid in a candy shop, remind him that you are in control of finding the right woman. ✔️ Try sex parties & kink events. One Night Parties, Heaven Circle, and Townhouse are great for meeting like-minded women & couples without the app time-wasters. ✔️ Use Tinder strategically. Quick-fire swipes and a clear bio = better results.
Want more threesomes but don’t want your dating life to be all about them? It’s all about control. Take the reins. 😏
🤣 “Oops, Wrong Hole” & Other Sex Fails
This week’s most ridiculous confessions:
🥕 The Salad Sabotage – A woman fucked herself with a carrot before a date… then served it in his salad. (She told him AFTER.) 😳
💦 The Facial Fanatic – A guy confessed he’s obsessed with cumming on women’s faces. We say? As long as she’s into it, paint away, Picasso.
🚿 Shower Sex = Emergency Room Trip – A guy had shower sex, dropped his partner, and ended up with a bruised dick for weeks. Lesson? Bathrooms are slippery, people.
🤢 The Cam Girl’s Nightmare – A cam model encouraged a guy’s orgasm… then watched in horror as he drank his own cum on camera. She threw up. He stayed online. We are speechless.
If you think you’ve had a worse sex fail? Submit it. We dare you.
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That’s a wrap on Episode 14! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! 💌
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Until next time… stay kinky! 😈🔥