Episode 6 | Fun Denial and the Queef Queen | Ironing Out The Kinks Podcast
🔥 Verbal Degradation, Orgasm Denial & The Most Disastrous Blowjob Ever 🔥
Episode 6 is here, and we’re diving into verbal degradation (why some people love being called filthy names), orgasm denial (the frustratingly hot game of control), and some absolute nightmare sex fails—including one poor girl who ended up with a mouthful of the WRONG kind of liquid. Plus, we tackle listener dilemmas about mismatched sex drives and public play. Let’s get into it! 😏
🗣️ Verbal Degradation – Why Some People Crave Being Insulted in Bed
This week’s featured kink: Verbal Degradation – the art of being talked down to in the dirtiest way possible.
🔹 What is it? Being called degrading names during sex (think: slut, whore, worthless, just a hole). 🔹 Why do people love it? It taps into power play, humiliation kinks, and submission. 🔹 It doesn’t mean they actually think less of you. It’s just about roleplay and fantasy. 🔹 Consent & boundaries are key. Not everyone wants to be called a worthless cum-dumpster mid-shag—so check first!
💡 Pro tip: If you want to try it, ease in with simple phrases like “You love being used, don’t you?” and build from there. It’s about trust—so make sure your partner is fully on board!
Would you let someone degrade you in bed, or is it a hard no? DM us your thoughts!
⛔ Orgasm Denial – The Kink That Will Drive You Insane (In a Good Way)
🔹 What is it? Bringing someone right to the edge of orgasm, then stopping. 🔹 Why is it hot? It builds insane anticipation, making the final orgasm 10x stronger. 🔹 Different levels of control:
Edging – Letting them get close, then stopping.
Denial – Completely refusing to let them come.
Ruined orgasms – Stopping at the exact moment of climax (pure evil). 🔹 Why submissives love it: It’s all about obeying and surrendering control.
💡 Want to try it? Start with edging, then see how much self-control you both have. But be warned—some people get so frustrated, they actually cry. (Luke may or may not be one of them.)
Would you rather have an orgasm denied or be forced to come on command? Tell us!
🙄 Listener Dilemma: “My Boyfriend Has a Way Higher Sex Drive Than Me”
A listener wrote in:
📢 “My boyfriend wants sex WAY more than I do. I feel guilty, but I just don’t have the same drive. What do I do?”
🚩 This is SUPER common. Most men’s sex drive resets every 24 hours, while women’s cycle over a month.
✔️ Talk about expectations. How often does he need it, and what are you comfortable with? ✔️ Sex doesn’t always have to be full-on intercourse. Mutual masturbation, teasing, and other forms of intimacy count! ✔️ Check for relationship imbalances. Sometimes, low libido stems from feeling unsupported emotionally. ✔️ If the gap is HUGE, compromise is key. But neither of you should feel forced.
Have you ever had a partner whose drive didn’t match yours? How did you handle it?
🚗 Listener Dilemma: “We Want to Try Public Play—Is It Overrated?”
📢 “My partner and I want to try outdoor/public play. Is it actually fun, or is it just overhyped?”
👀 Public sex is all about the thrill of getting caught—but there’s a fine line between risky fun and getting arrested.
✔️ The best outdoor spots: Cars, secluded woods, hiking trails, and quiet beaches. ✔️ Biggest mistake? Planning it like a full-on event. It works better when it’s spontaneous. ✔️ Keep it low-risk. You don’t want a Karen knocking on your window mid-blowjob. ✔️ If you’re not sure, start with semi-public settings. Balconies, back gardens, and car parks at night can be just as exciting!
Have you had public sex, or is it still on the bucket list? Send us your best (or worst) stories!
🤣 The Most Disastrous Blowjob Story Ever
A listener sent in possibly the worst oral sex fail we’ve ever read:
🤮 She was giving a guy a blowjob when he suddenly came… and IMMEDIATELY started pissing in her mouth. 🤯 She choked, pushed him off, and he kept pissing all over her bedroom carpet. 😳 He didn’t even seem to realize it wasn’t cum—he just kept groaning like nothing was wrong. 🚪 She kicked him out, and they never spoke again.
Moral of the story? If he warns you that he hasn’t had sex in a while… maybe keep your mouth just out of the splash zone.
If you think you have a worse sex fail… we NEED to hear it.
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That’s a wrap on Episode 6! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! 💌
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Until next time… stay kinky! 😈🔥