Episode 12 | The Chocolate Choo Choo Train and Holding up the Mirror | Ironing Out The Kinks Podcast

🔥 Farting Kinks, Mirror Play & the Wildest Poop-Related Sex Story Ever 🔥

We’re back, baby! After a short illness-induced break, Ironing Out the Kinks returns with another wild episode. This time, we’re talking fart kinks (yes, really), the sexy side of mirrors, and a listener’s nightmarish poop-filled hookup that will haunt you forever. Plus, we answer a listener’s dilemma about being dominant in the bedroom as a short queen. Let’s get into it! 😏

💨 The Farting Kink – Why Do Some People Love It?

We weren’t planning on covering this, but after one of our videos about accidental sex farts went viral, we HAD to dive deeper.

🔹 Is it the visual? Some people love seeing a butthole gape open mid-fart. 🔹 Is it the taboo? Farting is “unladylike,” which makes it hotter for some. 🔹 Is it the degradation aspect? Being farted ON can be a submissive, humiliation kink. 🔹 Or is it just funny? Maybe people just get off on the absurdity. 🤷‍♀️

Either way, Brazilian fart porn is apparently a thing (don’t ask us how we know), and men in our comment section were SCREAMING about how much they love a good sex fart. Are you one of them? Let us know.

🪞 Mirror Kink – Watching Yourself Get F*cked

Turns out, having sex in front of a mirror is one of the easiest ways to add spice to your sex life.

🔹 It’s voyeurism—but with yourself. 🔹 It helps women see what men see (because let’s be real, guys get the best angles). 🔹 It lets couples watch themselves together in a whole new way. 🔹 It’s a safe, intimate way to explore exhibitionism.

Want to try it? Put a mirror next to your bed, watch yourself masturbate, or (if you’re feeling bold) try a mirror doggy style session where you’re both watching the reflection. 🔥

👑 A Short Queen’s Dilemma: How to Dominate a Tall Man?

A listener wrote in:

📢 “I’m 5ft and my partner is 6’2. I love being dominant, but I struggle with the confidence and stamina to be on top. Any tips?”

Our advice? Being dominant isn’t about physicality—it’s about CONTROL.

✔️ You don’t have to be on top. Make HIM do the work while you command the scene. ✔️ Try sensory deprivation. Tie him up, blindfold him, and tell him exactly what to do. ✔️ Give him rules & punishments. Edge him, deny him, and remind him who's in charge. ✔️ Use furniture. If height difference is an issue, have him sit while you take charge. ✔️ Make him worship you. Have him kiss up your body, beg for permission, and serve you.

Being a dom isn’t about being physically big—it’s about being in control. Own it. 😈

🤣 The Most Disgusting Sex Story We’ve Ever Heard

A listener sent in an absolute HORROR SHOW of a hookup story.

🚨 Met a 52-year-old “Barnsley Cougar” online. 🚨 She showed up drunk, but still hot. 🚨 They had sex—then she got naked on his rug and farted. 🚨 Suddenly, a chocolate choo-choo train slid out. 🚂💩 🚨 She slurred, “It’s only poo-poo.” 🚨 Then came the full-blown loss of bowel control. 🚨 AND THEN SHE STARTED PUKING. 🚨 He had to call an ambulance, which led to the police getting involved after she started groping paramedics and threatening to “send her boys over.” 🚨 When he finally got her out, his bathroom looked like a crime scene.

He has since deleted every dating app.

…And honestly? Fair.

🧐 A Submissive Wife’s Question: How Do I Make My Husband More Dominant?

A listener wrote in:

📢 “I love being a sub, but my husband’s dominance isn’t enough for me. I’ve tried encouraging him, but he doesn’t seem to get it. Help?”

✔️ Show, don’t just tell. Find porn or erotica that aligns with what you want and watch/read it together. ✔️ Lead him into it. Instead of saying, “I want more,” say, “Can you try this tonight?” ✔️ Start small. Ask him to tie you up, edge you, or call you dirty names. ✔️ Boost his ego. Make him feel like a big dick dom, and he’ll step into the role naturally. ✔️ If he’s just not into it… accept it. Not everyone is meant to be dominant, and that’s okay.

If you’re really into hardcore submission and he’s just not that guy… you need to decide if that’s a dealbreaker.

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That’s a wrap on Episode 12! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! 💌

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Until next time… stay kinky! 😈🔥