Leather, Latex & the Dirty World of Used Underwear
π₯ Leather, Latex & the Dirty World of Used Underwear π₯
Another week, another episode of Ironing Out the Kinks! This time, weβre diving deep into leather, latex, and the fetish for used underwear (spoiler: Luke is VERY into it). Plus, we answer a listenerβs dilemma about a relationship struggling after long-distance separation, and we hear some wildest sex fails, including a guy who took shower sex to the ER. Letβs get into it. π
π€ Leather & Latex β Why Do People Love It?
This weekβs kink: the obsession with leather and latex.
πΉ Leather = Power. Itβs strong, it molds to the body, and it gives off serious dom energy. πΉ Latex = Liquid Shine. Itβs the mirror-finish fantasy, hugging every curve and giving that oiled-up look. πΉ The scent, the feel, the way it movesβ¦ itβs all part of the turn-on. πΉ A dominatrix in leather? Instant authority. A submissive in latex? Ultimate objectification.
While neither of us have played much with leather or latex, we can see the appeal. Would we ever try it? Never say never. π
π©² Used Underwear β The Smelliest, Sexiest Kink?
This is Lukeβs favorite. He loves the scent, the filth, the fact that itβs a personal, intimate part of Chelsea. And heβs not aloneβthereβs a huge market for buying and selling used underwear online.
π¦ Why do people love it?
The pheromones are biologically designed to turn us on.
Itβs a way to feel closer to a partner, especially in long-distance relationships.
Itβs dirty, naughty, and forbidden.
Some men collect them. (Yes, people still nick panties at house parties.)
π‘ Sexy Idea: Next time your partner goes away, slip a pair of your worn underwear into their bag and tell them to sniff it when they miss you. Foreplay starts way before the bedroom. π
Would you ever buy (or sell) used underwear? Drop your confessions.
π³ Relationship Trouble After Long-Distance?
A listener wrote in:
π’ βI was away for three months, and now my partner barely kisses me. She says it βfeels like cheatingβ because she got used to me not being here.β
π¨ Whatβs happening?
Some partners adjust to life without you and struggle to readapt.
Sometimes, emotional distance can develop while apart.
In some cases (not always!), a partner may have emotionally checked out.
Our Advice: β Have a brutally honest talk. Is she feeling disconnected, or is there something else going on? β Try a βhard reset.β Plan a romantic, intimate day to reignite that spark. β Give her time to re-acclimate. Some people take longer to adjust after time apart.
If all else fails? You deserve someone who WANTS to kiss you after three months apart. π―
π¦ A Bisexual Woman Looking for the Perfect Threesome Man
A listener asked:
π’ βI only like women in a threesome/throuple setting. But every guy I date either hates the idea or becomes obsessed with finding us another girl. Whereβs the happy medium?β
Our Advice: βοΈ Donβt tell men too soon. Let them get to know you firstβotherwise, theyβll hyper-fixate on it. βοΈ Set boundaries IMMEDIATELY. If a guy starts acting like a kid in a candy shop, remind him that you are in control of finding the right woman. βοΈ Try sex parties & kink events. One Night Parties, Heaven Circle, and Townhouse are great for meeting like-minded women & couples without the app time-wasters. βοΈ Use Tinder strategically. Quick-fire swipes and a clear bio = better results.
Want more threesomes but donβt want your dating life to be all about them? Itβs all about control. Take the reins. π
π€£ βOops, Wrong Holeβ & Other Sex Fails
This weekβs most ridiculous confessions:
π₯ The Salad Sabotage β A woman fucked herself with a carrot before a dateβ¦ then served it in his salad. (She told him AFTER.) π³
π¦ The Facial Fanatic β A guy confessed heβs obsessed with cumming on womenβs faces. We say? As long as sheβs into it, paint away, Picasso.
πΏ Shower Sex = Emergency Room Trip β A guy had shower sex, dropped his partner, and ended up with a bruised dick for weeks. Lesson? Bathrooms are slippery, people.
π€’ The Cam Girlβs Nightmare β A cam model encouraged a guyβs orgasmβ¦ then watched in horror as he drank his own cum on camera. She threw up. He stayed online. We are speechless.
If you think youβve had a worse sex fail? Submit it. We dare you.
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Thatβs a wrap on Episode 14! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! π
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Until next timeβ¦ stay kinky! ππ₯

