Episode 8 | Perverted Helicopters and The Oblivious Dad | Ironing Out The Kinks
🔥 Hotwifing, Praise Kinks, and the Most Embarrassing Sex Moments Ever 🔥
Episode 8 is here, and this week we’re diving into hotwifing (and how it’s different from cuckolding), praise kinks (aka the power of a good “good girl”), and the most awkward sex fails you’ll ever hear. Plus, we answer listener dilemmas about sex slowing down after moving in together and how to introduce dominance to a religious partner. Let’s get into it! 😏
💃 Hotwifing – Different from Cuckolding?
This week’s featured kink: Hotwifing – letting your wife sleep with other people (with permission).
🔹 Cuckolding vs. Hotwifing: In cuckolding, the man usually watches or plays the submissive role. In hotwifing, he doesn’t have to watch—he just enjoys knowing his wife is being desired by others. 🔹 It’s about shared pleasure, not humiliation. 🔹 Some men love the power dynamic of “loaning” their wife out. 🔹 Others just get off on knowing their partner is having fun and coming back home to them.
🔸 Popular variations:
Watching videos of your partner’s encounters
Only engaging with pre-approved partners
Having a threesome, but the husband is only involved minimally
Would you ever try it? Or is this a one-way ticket to a jealousy spiral? Let us know.
🙌 Praise Kink – The Power of “Good Girl”
Turns out, being praised during sex is a MAJOR turn-on.
🔹 It’s the softer side of dominance. Instead of degrading, it’s about reinforcing how good they’re making you feel. 🔹 Common phrases: “Good girl,” “That’s it,” “You’re doing so well.” 🔹 Works well with submission & service-based kinks. 🔹 For men: Being told how good they are at sex = instant ego boost.
Want to try it? Next time, tell your partner EXACTLY how good they’re making you feel. It’s hotter than you think. 🔥
😳 Listener Dilemma: “We Moved In Together & Now Sex is Dying”
A listener wrote in:
📢 “When we were long-distance, we had sex non-stop when we visited each other. Now that we live together, it rarely happens. What’s going on?”
✔️ It’s normal. Moving in together = real life kicks in. ✔️ Before, every visit was a honeymoon. Now, you’re dealing with daily routines, stress, and laundry. ✔️ Sex doesn’t just happen—you have to make space for it. ✔️ Seduction starts outside the bedroom. Date nights, flirty texts, and small acts of romance help!
Pro tip: Sex isn’t just P in V. Oral, toys, mutual masturbation—keep the connection alive even when penetration isn’t on the menu.
🙄 Listener Dilemma: “My Wife Grew Up Religious & Struggles with Sex Talk”
A listener wrote in:
📢 “My wife had a strict religious upbringing. She’s starting to explore dominance, but she still struggles to express what she wants. How do I help her open up?”
✔️ Be patient. Strict upbringings = deeply ingrained shame. This takes time. ✔️ Encourage small steps. Ask closed-ended questions (“Do you like when I do X?”). ✔️ Introduce erotic media. Watch documentaries or shows with dominant/submissive dynamics. ✔️ Reassure her. If she enjoys it, it doesn’t mean she’s “wrong” or “bad.” ✔️ Let her discover her own desires. Don’t pressure her—she needs to feel safe to explore.
Building a kinky sex life takes time, but you’re already on the right track. Keep communicating!
🤣 The Most Awkward Sex Fails Ever
We asked: What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex? Here are the best (worst?) responses:
💨 The Ball Fart Incident – A guy held in a fart all day. The moment his girlfriend lifted his balls during a blowjob, a pocket of trapped gas escaped, straight into her face. She never acknowledged it. He never recovered.
🚁 Caught by a Helicopter – A couple was having sex in a secluded field… only to be lit up by a National Guard training helicopter’s spotlight.
🛁 The Shower Sh*t Show – A girl was being finger-gagged in the shower. After too many deep gags, she lost control… and sh*t all over the tub. To make it worse? They were in a shared hotel shower. She stomped it down the drain. 😳
🐱 The Cat & The Condom – A listener’s cat stole a used condom from the bin and started choking on it. A very undignified rescue followed.
If you have a worse story, we NEED to hear it.
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That’s a wrap on Episode 8! Got a filthy confession, a ridiculous sex fail, or a kink you need advice on? Submit it anonymously at iotk.fun! 💌
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Until next time… stay kinky! 😈🔥